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Lost - BF's family doesn't want him to be with me

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12/27/2019 at 1:29 AM

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I am divorced,my ex husband is postive as well as myself. I met a great guy in May and we instantly hit it off . I eventually told him my status, he was very disappointed but wanted to try to see if he could make it work... as time went on we come to find out that his mom was best friends with my ex cousin...LORD!!! My ex cousin knows of his status but not of mines. When the bestfriend learned that I was talking to my boyfriend she began to tell his mom that she believes I could have it and that my boyfriend should leave me... we were already struggling trying to make him feel safe that we wouldnt contract anything from me....now this... earlier this week my boyfriend mom demanded that he come home because she did not want him to die..and that he daughters to live for.. I lost my job back in october and will not start my new job until January so naturally bill's are alittle behind... the agreement is that he will not leave until everything is caught up..

This sucks I really hate I have to loose my relationship bc his family doesnt understand  

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12/27/2019 at 6:58 AM

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That's some total bullshit. If he leaves you because of his family then he never was that into you. He will be fine if y'all take precautions.  She doesn't want him to die🤨 Obviously she's not educated on the disease. Because if your undetectable, he can't get it and if y'all use protection he can't get it. So if he leaves, oh well. He wasn't for you...And people do have a right to change their minds and do what their told😒

Don't sweat it, you have enough to be concerned about already...

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12/27/2019 at 5:18 PM

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 Thank you ..this what I'm trying to tell myself just so hard! Bc once he leaves I'll be in this city all by myself.... 


Lost - BF's family doesn't want him to be with me https://www.carenity.us/forum/other-discussions/living-with-hivaids/lost-1397 2019-12-27 17:18:27

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12/27/2019 at 9:28 PM

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Hopefully he doesn't leave. Did you guys move there together?I so and he does leave, meet some friends, people Frome work, etc. Or move closer to family so you won't be alone. I don't have anyone but my kids that are older. Once their gone I'll be alone. I haven't told my family or friends and don't think that I will. But I'll always stay close to them so I won't feel alone...😉

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Lost - BF's family doesn't want him to be with me https://www.carenity.us/forum/other-discussions/living-with-hivaids/lost-1397 2019-12-27 21:28:20

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