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Edited on 03/04/2019 at 4:22 AM

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Hello Carenity Members,

I have seen in thedepression forums that there are many posts about people needing someone to talk to/listen to and feeling of overwhelemed with life or facing depression for various reason

I have created this discussion group and PINNED it so that it will remain at the top for people to do several things:

1) Those needing someone to talk to, can briefly state what they are struggling with - their situation - and that they would like to talk with someone.

2) Those who would like to listen/talk to someone else, can then private message that user directly and begin a conversation.

or

3) Those who have either overcome their depression to an extent or just really want to help and listen can also comment and say just that - basically offering themselves to be contacted.

I hope this helps open the communication and organize the forum as well. I think peer support is essential, especialy when in our own lives, perhaps we feel blocked out.

As always, there is the general forum for any and all other discussions. 

If situation is very bad, please know your life is important and reach out to a medical professional or call Crisis Hotline at 1-800-273-8255

Thank you,

Lee__R

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03/26/2022 at 4:34 AM

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Everyone keeps telling me to give myself time to heal from what i have been through but i have felt this way my entire life, they say give myself time i'm 17 about to be 18 in june and i have had nothing but time. Almost 18 years of time, what do i do? how can i heal when all i have had is time? i want to be happy but it's scary because being happy means i could end up back where i am now, the sadness is all i have ever known.....it is comforting in a way, to know that no matter what i go through i will feel this way at the end of it all.


Need someone to talk to/Listen to others https://www.carenity.us/forum/other-discussions/living-with-depression/need-someone-to-talk-tolisten-to-others-204 2022-03-26 04:34:12

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Life is full of suffering... Why do we exist in the first place? Why are we still fighting to be here? Why is it so wrong to just end it? Why, why, why??? I'll never get an answer...


Need someone to talk to/Listen to others https://www.carenity.us/forum/other-discussions/living-with-depression/need-someone-to-talk-tolisten-to-others-204 2022-04-08 01:26:45

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I NEED PEOPLE TO TALK TOO AND THE REAL CELEBRITIES AND THE REAL LINDSAY WAGNER WOULD NOT COME AROUND ME AND I CANNOT TAKE THE REAL WANDA CARAWAY AND THE REAL CANDICE AND BROOKS FRIDAY BEING LOVED BY THE REAL CELEBRITIES AND I HAVE NO ONE IN MYLIFE AND THE REAL WANDA CARAWAY WOULD NOT LET ME HAVE ANYONE TO LOVE AND CARE ABOUT ME IN PERSON AND I AM MAD AND UPSET THAT THE REAL CELEBRITIES LOVE THE REAL WANDA CARAWAY AND MY SISTER AND BROTHER AND SISTER OVER ME AND I WANT TO KILL MY SELF THAT THE REAL CELEBRITIES AND THE REAL LINDSAY WAGNER DO NOT WANT ME IN PERSON AND I NEED PEOPLE TO LOVE ME AND THANKS CHRISTY CLEGHORN CHRISTY //This part of content was deleted by the Carenity team, according to Carenity's Terms of use and Code of Good Conduct//

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Need someone to talk to/Listen to others https://www.carenity.us/forum/other-discussions/living-with-depression/need-someone-to-talk-tolisten-to-others-204 2022-04-16 07:45:40

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I WANT THE REAL LINDSAY WAGNER AND THE REAL CELEBRITIES IN PERSON AT MY MOTHERS HOUSE AND I HAVE BAD DEPRESSION PROBLEMS AND I CANNOT TAKE MY RIGHTS TO BE DENIED AND I LIVE IN THE UNITED STATES AND I WANT MY RIGHTS TO BE KNOWN AND I CANNOT BE REJECTED BY NO ONE AND THE REAL LINDSAY WAGNER HURT MY FEELINGS BY STANDING ME UP AND I AM VERY DEPRESSED AND I WANTED THE REAL LINDSAY WAGNER AS A GOD MOTHER AND A GOOD FRIEND AND I CANNOT TAKE REJECTIONAT HOME AND EVERYWHERE AND IT IS AGAINST MY WILL AND I DO NOT LIVE IN PARIS FRANCE AND I LIVE IN SYLACAUGA,ALABAMA AND I AM MANIC DEPRESSED ABOUT THE REAL LINDSAY WAGNER AND THE REAL CELEBRITIES BEING WITH THE REAL BROOKS AND CANDICE FRIDAY AND THE REAL WANDA CARAWAY NEEDS TO BE ARRESTED VIOLATING MY RIGHTS AT HOME ABOUT COMPANY AND SOCIAL LIFE WITH THE REAL LINDSAY WAGNER AND THE REAL CELEBRITIES AND I AM HURTING AND FIRE THE REAL WANDA CARAWAY FROM MY MOTHER AND SISTER CHRISTY CLEGHORN FROM SYLACAUGA,ALABAMA DO NOT BLOCK ME PHONE NUMBER IS //This part of content was deleted by the Carenity team, according to Carenity's Terms and conditions//

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Need someone to talk to/Listen to others https://www.carenity.us/forum/other-discussions/living-with-depression/need-someone-to-talk-tolisten-to-others-204 2022-04-20 03:15:44

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Everyone freaking leaves when I try to explain to them what I’m going through it freaking hurts and then I have no one to freaking talk to because I’m just a worthless person


Need someone to talk to/Listen to others https://www.carenity.us/forum/other-discussions/living-with-depression/need-someone-to-talk-tolisten-to-others-204 2022-04-29 23:29:31

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@Skylarswims123 thanks for the follow. You can to me about anything

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@Avasajust keep strong I feel you I'm lonely now that my kid don't want nothing to do with me my siblings don't either my parents,aunts and uncles are all in heaven I really feel numb can't even cry

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I am always here if anyone needs to talk or just a shoulder to cry on. I'm just a message away.

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Need someone to talk to/Listen to others https://www.carenity.us/forum/other-discussions/living-with-depression/need-someone-to-talk-tolisten-to-others-204 2022-06-12 13:15:50

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@2ndchance Yes, life can be hard at times. I used to feel and ask questions why I am suffering? Life has taught me a few lessons. First, never give up. It is easy to say, "I throw in the towel," meaning giving up. Today after talking to others especially the people at my church, I live one day at a time. I totally ignore negativity from others and focus on being positive. It may not seem easy at first, but it can work, at least for me it did. Sure, I still have my days feeling down, but I make every effort to bounce back. For example, I enjoy reading and researching Florida's history because I was born here. I enjoy cooking, bible study, being part of focus groups. Basically, I am saying to keep my mind occupied in a positive way. What fun activities do you enjoy? I hope this helps.

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Need someone to talk to/Listen to others https://www.carenity.us/forum/other-discussions/living-with-depression/need-someone-to-talk-tolisten-to-others-204 2022-06-12 19:13:53
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06/13/2022 at 5:19 PM

Hello. I went through same thing but with two members same time! I was four years old. I knew something happened but didn't know. I never told anyone til night before I got married.


Need someone to talk to/Listen to others https://www.carenity.us/forum/other-discussions/living-with-depression/need-someone-to-talk-tolisten-to-others-204 2022-06-13 17:19:35
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