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Why can't I find love?

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03/19/2020 at 3:24 AM

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Hello I am soon to be 60 years old// I meet ladys but nothing ever becomes of it either that flake out or make up something lame to blow me off// I have been in two long term relationships/ one for 9 years and another for five/ not much for my years/ I am getting ready to give up on love and living. I can’t stand this.//I am not ugly I am tall and thin so what’s their problem 

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03/19/2020 at 8:41 PM

Hi, I'm April. I'm sorry your going through this. I've been in your situation before. there were times I felt like giving up too. It's definitely a tough thing. But It can happen when you least expect it. I know that's annoying to hear & I've heard it alot before I met my husband but its true. I met him on match.com back in 2010


Why can't I find love? https://www.carenity.us/forum/other-discussions/living-with-depression/i-cant-understand-why-i-cannot-find-love-1671 2020-03-19 20:41:00

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04/05/2020 at 10:43 PM

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Hell.o thanks for the support//// I cannot believe it// I have profiles on two dating sites//MATCH AND ZOOZKS///

no replys or when I get a chat request I answer but then they don`t reply back or nothing pans out, not even freindships//// This coupeled with this social distancing has me isolated and very lonely//// I ask WHY can`t a nice guy with a good heart meet the one he loves/// It is if I have a dark cloud over my life. I t isn`t good for my health.//And with my employer cutting my hours it isn`t any fun /////lonley and stressed.  


Why can't I find love? https://www.carenity.us/forum/other-discussions/living-with-depression/i-cant-understand-why-i-cannot-find-love-1671 2020-04-05 22:43:36

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04/06/2020 at 7:41 PM

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@Kj2020‍ Hello Kj2020, that's great that you're putting yourself out there, that is such a hard thing to do. I understand your feeling lonely, this is such a difficult and strange time. But you have the Carenity community here to talk to you and support you!

Hello members, I hope you don't mind me tagging you! Do any of you have any advice for Kj2020? What do you do to keep the loneliness away during social distancing? 

@Cassidystro‍ @AndiiTaylor‍ @Rebekah24‍ @Ringo1‍ @Toylynn70‍ @nmn1024‍ @Brooke‍ @Lucbird‍ @GamurSnek‍ 

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Why can't I find love? https://www.carenity.us/forum/other-discussions/living-with-depression/i-cant-understand-why-i-cannot-find-love-1671 2020-04-06 19:41:23

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04/06/2020 at 7:52 PM

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Keep your head up. I am engaged but I understand your loneliness as I am separated from my fiance. He lives in Canada and I in the USA. Match is a very good site unfortunately not all people are there looking for something serious. But please don't give up hope!


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