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Ankylosing spondylitis: how do you talk to your family about it?

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Are you all able to talk to your family about your AS? Do they believe you? Do they support you? I need advice

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Hello @spond568‍, thank you for opening this discussion! emoticon cute

Hi everyone, how are you today?

Are you able to talk openly about your AS with your loved ones? Do they understand what you're going through? How do you talk to them about it? Have you ever had someone not believe you?
@Badbones‍ @Cdionne1089‍ @Avro560‍ @Kerryross‍ @Kanna3‍ @w2007sara‍ @JayLynn‍ @Tinamaria‍ @jrobinjrob‍ 

Don't hesitate to share your experiences and advice here!

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Ankylosing spondylitis: how do you talk to your family about it? https://www.carenity.us/forum/other-discussions/living-with-ankylosing-spondylitis/ankylosing-spondylitis-talking-to-your-family-3835 2021-10-14 18:07:04

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Ankylosing spondylitis: how do you talk to your family about it? https://www.carenity.us/forum/other-discussions/living-with-ankylosing-spondylitis/ankylosing-spondylitis-talking-to-your-family-3835 2024-03-26 09:52:55

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For me, it is important not to hesitate to speak up. Your family must support you, it is essential for our recovery


Ankylosing spondylitis: how do you talk to your family about it? https://www.carenity.us/forum/other-discussions/living-with-ankylosing-spondylitis/ankylosing-spondylitis-talking-to-your-family-3835 2021-11-04 14:13:08

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@Badbones This is a really important discussion, @spond568! Sharing our experiences is so vital. It's tough when people don't understand or believe you. Communication is key, but finding the right approach can feel like navigating a tricky situation, almost like constantly dodging obstacles in a fast-paced game. Sometimes I feel I'm always losing the  Slope Game with my family due to lacking understanding. What strategies have others found helpful in bridging that gap?


Ankylosing spondylitis: how do you talk to your family about it? https://www.carenity.us/forum/other-discussions/living-with-ankylosing-spondylitis/ankylosing-spondylitis-talking-to-your-family-3835 2026-01-21 10:44:45

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As for my own opinion, I am willing to tell my family my current situation about AS. Because only family is the place that loves, protects and protects us. Your family will take care of you through this difficult time. [This content has been moderated by an administrator for violating Carenity’s Terms of Use.] 


Ankylosing spondylitis: how do you talk to your family about it? https://www.carenity.us/forum/other-discussions/living-with-ankylosing-spondylitis/ankylosing-spondylitis-talking-to-your-family-3835 2023-12-20 10:12:21

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I think you should be frank with your family [This content has been moderated by an administrator] 


Ankylosing spondylitis: how do you talk to your family about it? https://www.carenity.us/forum/other-discussions/living-with-ankylosing-spondylitis/ankylosing-spondylitis-talking-to-your-family-3835 2024-04-22 05:40:35

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@orabelle THANKS YOU.


Ankylosing spondylitis: how do you talk to your family about it? https://www.carenity.us/forum/other-discussions/living-with-ankylosing-spondylitis/ankylosing-spondylitis-talking-to-your-family-3835 2024-10-16 14:43:41

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@DejonMuller

Speaking up without hesitation is crucial, in my opinion. We can't get past this obstacle without the love and encouragement of your loved ones.

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Ankylosing spondylitis: how do you talk to your family about it? https://www.carenity.us/forum/other-discussions/living-with-ankylosing-spondylitis/ankylosing-spondylitis-talking-to-your-family-3835 2025-06-12 09:36:07

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It's great that you're looking for support regarding ankylosing spondylitis. I struggled to discuss my condition with my family too, but once I explained how it affected my daily life, they started to understand. It's important to be open about your feelings and experiences.
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Ankylosing spondylitis: how do you talk to your family about it? https://www.carenity.us/forum/other-discussions/living-with-ankylosing-spondylitis/ankylosing-spondylitis-talking-to-your-family-3835 2025-07-16 04:06:04

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I completely understand the struggle. For years, my family dismissed my complaints as "just aches and pains" or "growing old." It was incredibly frustrating trying to explain the constant fatigue and stiffness, the way it impacted my daily life. Eventually, a clear diagnosis and some informative sessions with my rheumatologist helped them understand the reality of ankylosing spondylitis. Now, they're much more supportive, which makes a huge difference.

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Ankylosing spondylitis: how do you talk to your family about it? https://www.carenity.us/forum/other-discussions/living-with-ankylosing-spondylitis/ankylosing-spondylitis-talking-to-your-family-3835 2026-03-11 04:31:35

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Ankylosing spondylitis can be tough, especially when explaining it to loved ones. Break it down simply. Think of it like a puzzle where the pieces (your spine) want to stick together when they shouldn't. Communication is key!

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Ankylosing spondylitis: how do you talk to your family about it? https://www.carenity.us/forum/other-discussions/living-with-ankylosing-spondylitis/ankylosing-spondylitis-talking-to-your-family-3835 2026-03-17 05:42:36

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It's tough when family doesn't fully understand. Sharing my experiences felt like an uphill battle at first. What helped was focusing on specific examples of how AS impacts me, not just the label. Be patient and keep communicating. [This content has been moderated by an administrator.] Hang in there.


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Hello everyone 🌟

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We’re checking back in on this discussion: Ankylosing spondylitis and talking to your family 💛💬

Explaining your condition to loved ones isn’t always easy, especially when symptoms are invisible or hard to describe 🤍

💬 How do you talk to your family about your condition? What has helped (or made it harder)? Do you have any tips to share? 🌿✨

Your experience could really help others feel understood and supported 🤝💛

Take care,
Somya from the Carenity team 🌼

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