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Posted on 7/3/18 4:27 PM
I have been suffering with depression for the last 3 years. The past year has been the worst. I don't leave my house .I'm scared to drive .I struggle with daily life .I barely brush my hair or teeth .I have gained a lot of weight .I'm just really struggling .My husband is tired because I have no motivation and I don't know how to cope with normal day to day life .He just walked out and says he is not coming back. I need help!
Beginning of the discussion - 7/5/18Husband just left me because of my depression https://www.carenity.us/forum/depression/living-with-depression/husband-just-left-me-because-of-my-depression-260
Posted on 7/5/18 7:23 PM
Hello, I'm so very sorry to hear this.. so many people are misinformed about depression and don't know how or what to do when someone they care about is depressed. He needs to take the initiative to find out what it's all about there's no excuse for that as there are many sites on the internet that can help them to to understand what you are going through.
Have you been to counseling or try to medication? I understand medication can be a tough road from personal experience some things work some things don't, but it is worth a shot...
Counseling definitely does help if you find a great counselor. That's where I am at right now I need to find someone I can talk to and feel safe with.
Please do try to find someone that you can talk to. Even if it's a hotline, maybe they can direct you to some free counseling or a free Discussion Group.
God bless you I will say a prayer for you. Take care.
Posted on 7/6/18 2:05 AM
@Morin41 yeah, he doesnt deserve u. My husbabd also informed me that he was tired of the intende sadness, do he decided to ghost me without ending our relationship. I am ..... barely hamging in. Been to a million useless coubselors, psychotherapists, tried meds, did yoga for decades, heavily meditated,..... seems like all advice out thete just lines someone elses pocket and screws me over.
Posted on 7/9/18 6:21 PM
I’m sorry he did that to you if he had ever had this mess I think he would have understood better take care of yourself