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I have been feeling lonely and I tear up all the time. I feel lonely in my relationship because for 2 nights my boyfriend sleeps in a different room. I feel lonely like he doesn’t want me anymore or he’s cheating.

Beginning of the discussion - 11/27/19

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Talk to him. It will not be healthy for you to come up with conclusions, it will only make you mind go through overdrive. Been there done that. By the end of it you are in no fit state to have a constructive discussion. I have been through something similar, and my inability to deal with it and have the conversation, meant I had a really bead conclusion in my mind and paranoia that the answer she was giving me didn't add up to what I was thinking. Needless to say it didn't end well, and I just made everything worse. Big breath and talk to him. Good luck

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Hi @Hidden username‍ sounds like something is going on or bothering him... that is why the last 2 nights he has slept in a different room. But if you keep it in to yourself, you are only allowing your mind to wonder... like you are thinking the worst. It could be something he is dealing with and this is his way of dealing with certain things... Part of a relationship. You find out things about your partner through living with him or her. Talking with him to see what is going on and listening to him and then talking about how you feel (if warranted) is needed. Because until then, everything you are feeling is speculative.

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Thanks @Hidden username‍. I  was having the same dream for almost 2 weeks now. The dream was about him cheating. I never dream about someone cheating unless it’s true. I had gut feeling he was. Come to reality it’s true he did cheated. I asked him about he deny it. I didn’t tell him how I found out about. 

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I've been feeling lonely and bed, my so called girlfriend broke up with me. I tried to make everyone happy and now people just give up on me. I hate this feeling, I try not to tear up but it's hard not to. I really dont have anyone to talk to about any of this and it's breaking me down. 

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@Hidden username I'm sure it feels like everyone is giving up on you, but i'm sure there is that one person who cares and loves you very much. Find that person. I'm really sorry you feel this way, if you want you can message me about your issues. You deserve to feel better than this, keep fighting! >hug

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Thank you for your reply. I have that one person and it's my wife. I just hurt her and push her away as I am hard on giving trust. As soon as it feels like it's to good to be true I distant myself. Which I'm working on changing shes amazing honestly she deserves all my trust. I also suffer from depression and anxiety. My kids other parent wont let me see it talk to them. With the holidays coming up it's very hard. 

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I always feel lonely even when people are around. I have trouble talking which makes recovery so much harder. I am an isolator and lonely Ness seems to just be apart of my daily life. Even though my mind keep spinning and thinking about the past over and over and gives me less hope for the future.  Can anyone help

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Good morning beautiful people. A few weeks ago I was diagnosed with colorectal cancer. I've been alone through this process so far. It's scary

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I dont have that issue but I just wanted to say keep ur head up and talk to people when u can and try to make yourself feel alittle better. I really wish you the best. You can do this. Dont give up