Topic of the discussion
Posted on 1/19/21 1:37 AM
my boyfriend and I have been unfortunately on and off again for about a year. I say on and off but mainly me breaking away from him for my mental health and my mother. Lately, it seems like we're drifting apart and only have a connection barely in person. My best friend has been helping me hide our relationship from my mom but I don't feel like we're together anymore. He's online school while im in-person so it's like we're stuck in a loop of my friend and me secretly meeting up with him somewhere then talk for a bit then leave. I'm not sure what to do anymore I don't wanna tell my mom cause she'll worry and probably ground me but I don't wanna tell my friend or my boyfriend and worry them either. What's worse is my friend repetitively tells me she's come too far to let our relationship fail.
Beginning of the discussion - 1/21/21Am I worth being loved? https://www.carenity.us/forum/depression/living-with-depression/am-i-worth-being-loved-2965
Posted on 1/21/21 10:16 AM
Everyone deserves love and respect, maybe try talking it out. The longer you wait the more tension it builds.
Posted on 2/12/21 6:12 PM
@Aliyah You definitely deserve to be loved. Is there a reason why you're hiding your relationship from your mom? Between that and not being on the same schedule it must be really hard
Posted on 2/13/21 5:50 PM
@jasmine1092 were hiding our relationship obly because hes a good guy who just wants to see a future together and my mom doesnt like that I guess. He gave me a promise ring and a small key. She had broken us up over that so ive been hiding it for about 6 months. Sometimes I'll text him first and other days ill wait for him but he doesnt so im not sure what I should do right now.