Logo Carenity
Logo Carenity
Join now! Log in
flag us
flag fr flag en flag es flag de flag it
Home

Forums

Latest discussions
General discussions
See all - Forum index from A to Z

Medications

Medications fact sheet
See all - Medication index from A to Z

Surveys

Ongoing surveys
The results of the surveys

Magazine

Our featured pieces
News
Testimonials
Nutrition
Advice
Procedures & paperwork

Conditions

Fact sheets
See all - Disease index from A to Z

About

About us
Why share your data?
The Carenity team
The ambassadors
Partner associations
Contributors
The Science and Ethics Committee
Our scientific publications
Our commitments
Certifications and awards
Carenity in the news
Editorial policy
Code of conduct and privacy policy
Legal notice
Terms of use
Cookie management
Contact
Carenity for professionals

Join now! Log in
  • Forums

    • Latest discussions
    • General discussions
    • See all - Forum index from A to Z
  • Medications

    • Medications fact sheet
    • See all - Medication index from A to Z
  • Surveys

    • Ongoing surveys
    • The results of the surveys
  • Magazine

    • Our featured pieces
    • News
    • Testimonials
    • Nutrition
    • Advice
    • Procedures & paperwork
  • Conditions

    • Fact sheets
    • See all - Disease index from A to Z
  • Home
  • Forums
  • General forums
  • Living with multiple myeloma
  • What is your multiple myeloma diagnosis story?
 Back
Living with multiple myeloma

What is your multiple myeloma diagnosis story?

  •  244 views
  •  6 times supported
  •  15 comments

avatar Lee__R

Lee__R

Community manager
03/15/2019 at 1:02 AM

Good advisor

avatar Lee__R

Lee__R

Community manager

Last activity on 04/03/2020 at 5:04 PM

Joined in 2018


1,336 comments posted | 2 in the Living with multiple myeloma group

2 of their responses were helpful to members


Rewards

  • Good Advisor

  • Contributor

  • Messenger

  • Explorer

  • Friend

  • Top chef


 View profileView  Add a friendAdd  Write

Hello members,

Multiple Myeloma can have several debiltating symptoms, such as: bone pain, nausea, fatigue, vomiting...the list goes on and early diagnosis can be crucial in determining the success of treatments.

 

How were you diagnosed? What were the initial signs/symptoms that made you seek further medical advice?

Follow

Other groups...

Carenity News
Feedback for Carenity
Fun and games
General Topics
Good to know
Health and Medical News
How to use Carenity
Let's talk about COVID-19
Life beyond illness
The Holiday Season
Youth patients with chronic conditions

Give your opinion

Survey

What do you think about the Carenity Forum and community?

Survey

Help shape the future of Carenity!

Survey

Become a Carenity Ambassador – Help our community thrive!

Survey

On a scale of 0 to 10, how likely are you to recommend Carenity to a friend or colleague?

All comments

Go to the last comment

avatar Lee__R

Lee__R

Community manager
03/19/2019 at 2:47 AM

Good advisor

avatar Lee__R

Lee__R

Community manager

Last activity on 04/03/2020 at 5:04 PM

Joined in 2018


1,336 comments posted | 2 in the Living with multiple myeloma group

2 of their responses were helpful to members


Rewards

  • Good Advisor

  • Contributor

  • Messenger

  • Explorer

  • Friend

  • Top chef


 View profileView  Add a friendAdd  Write

Hello members, I hope you do not mind me tagging you. We encourage you to join in on the discussion.

@Fleecrouglir6853‍ @Hidden username‍ @Prayheamel421‍ @Hidden username‍ @Glaihocroung25‍ @Hidden username‍ @Hidden username‍ @Hidden username‍ @Hidden username‍ @Teshaygrong421‍ @Hidden username‍ @Hidden username‍ @Cleeclebloot4374‍ @Hidden username‍ @Hidden username‍ @Hidden username‍ @Shuprourayfet9‍ 


What is your multiple myeloma diagnosis story? https://www.carenity.us/forum/other-discussions/living-with-multiple-myeloma/how-were-you-diagnosed-what-were-the-initial-symptoms-and-signs-844 2019-03-19 02:47:34

avatar Courtney_J

Courtney_J

Community manager
07/29/2021 at 5:59 PM

Good advisor

avatar Courtney_J

Courtney_J

Community manager

Last activity on 08/08/2022 at 11:09 AM

Joined in 2020


1,334 comments posted | 11 in the Living with multiple myeloma group

6 of their responses were helpful to members


Rewards

  • Good Advisor

  • Contributor

  • Messenger

  • Explorer

  • Friend


 View profileView  Add a friendAdd  Write

Hello everyone, 

How are you feeling today? emoticon cute

I thought I would revive this discussion so we can all get to know one another better!

What was your diagnosis experience like? How old were you when you were diagnosed? What symptoms were you having that let you know something was wrong? What treatments have you undergone? How are you doing today? 
@Creesutour482‍ @Hooplepleesh723‍ @5Leadoufeeck‍ @Hidden username‍ @Hidden username‍ @Playvat69‍ @Greyteat34‍ @Gloucraicugreas3553‍ @Foukeng616‍ @Brufobifous6961‍ @Dairoma78‍ @Deareal1‍ @Riplufol7176‍ @Noufroafoack246‍ @Kesayl0795‍ @Yooyayvoa33‍ @Joushoagroor527‍ @Stuneajoar08‍ @Noumayhayn‍ 

Feel free to introduce yourself and share your story with us here! emoticon cute

Take care,
Courtney

See the signature

Courtney_J, Community Manager, Carenity US


What is your multiple myeloma diagnosis story? https://www.carenity.us/forum/other-discussions/living-with-multiple-myeloma/how-were-you-diagnosed-what-were-the-initial-symptoms-and-signs-844 2021-07-29 17:59:12

avatar 3Cheeseageyn

3Cheeseageyn

09/15/2021 at 7:32 PM

avatar 3Cheeseageyn

3Cheeseageyn

Last activity on 10/05/2025 at 1:37 PM

Joined in 2021


7 comments posted | 1 in the Living with multiple myeloma group


Rewards

  • Contributor

  • Committed

  • Explorer


 View profileView  Add a friendAdd  Write

I was loosing blood, headaches n having heavy cycles. I went to my gyno n she ran some test n I needed a hysterectomy, so I had one n was released on a Thursday n started getting sick, couldn't walk or hold anything down, lost 20 pds in week. So I went to hospital and I was in renal failure. Before surgery they assumed I was a healthy 42 yr old, well I keep getting worse, with no answers n I was doing dialysis. 19 days later my kidney doctor, asked if anyone had checked my urine, I said nope so she did n a day later, she said I think I know what wrong with you n she said I'm not a oncologist n I have referred you to one. So I was tested for multiple myeloma and I was in a stage 3 n they basically said I was gravely ill. That was in 2011


What is your multiple myeloma diagnosis story? https://www.carenity.us/forum/other-discussions/living-with-multiple-myeloma/how-were-you-diagnosed-what-were-the-initial-symptoms-and-signs-844 2021-09-15 19:32:48

avatar Fraibleyveeng578

Fraibleyveeng578

09/30/2021 at 12:48 AM

avatar Fraibleyveeng578

Fraibleyveeng578

Last activity on 11/13/2021 at 6:24 PM

Joined in 2021


7 comments posted | 1 in the Living with multiple myeloma group


Rewards

  • Contributor

  • Explorer

  • Newsfeeder


 View profileView  Add a friendAdd  Write

I am new to Carenity and I was diagnosed on May 29, 2021, with stage 3 multiple myeloma.  My first treatment was on June 4th.  I was in the hospital for about 3 weeks getting blood transfusions and chemo.  Since I have gone to the Oncology Center first once a week and now two times a month.  I have had every side effect possible; some are, weight loss, hair loss, leg swelling, and being nauseated.  This past week was the worst, out of commission for four days.  I am weak most days and cannot walk without a walker.  On July 4th I fell and broke my back! I am now in a Turtle Brace!  As all of you know there is no cure for multiple myeloma, only treatment to hold it at bay.  Each time I go to the Center, I get news such as no change, change for the better or worse.  The life expectancy with stage 3 is 2.5 to 6 years.  As a writer, I take this time frame seriously; it is difficult to hear when you have many writing projects planned.  However, today has been a good day.  


What is your multiple myeloma diagnosis story? https://www.carenity.us/forum/other-discussions/living-with-multiple-myeloma/how-were-you-diagnosed-what-were-the-initial-symptoms-and-signs-844 2021-09-30 00:48:00

avatar Louflun426

Louflun426

10/01/2021 at 7:21 AM

avatar Louflun426

Louflun426

Last activity on 10/11/2021 at 5:23 PM

Joined in 2021


4 comments posted | 2 in the Living with multiple myeloma group


Rewards

  • Explorer


 View profileView  Add a friendAdd  Write

 

My name is Rick Jackson! 
I found out March 2020 I had full blown MM! I had MGUS for 14 years never thought it would go too MM! I had chemo for 6 months for a stem cell transplant! But my numbers on my bone marrow biopsy went from 16% too 75% with treatment! So changed my treatment meds too Darzalex, dexamethasone and polymist! In time took me down too 2%! So had my stem cell transplant and in 90% remission! I have the high aggressive type with gain of 1!   Gain 1 of 21q! I take heavy maintenance! I have had before transplant 2 back surgery’s and a few broken ribs! Have lesions everywhere! I live each day like it’s your last cause some day it will be! Good luck too everyone and I pray every night God will bring me through this it’s in his hands

 

 


What is your multiple myeloma diagnosis story? https://www.carenity.us/forum/other-discussions/living-with-multiple-myeloma/how-were-you-diagnosed-what-were-the-initial-symptoms-and-signs-844 2021-10-01 07:21:29

avatar Braiboaplar7674

Braiboaplar7674

10/01/2021 at 5:44 PM

avatar Braiboaplar7674

Braiboaplar7674

Last activity on 10/29/2021 at 7:22 PM

Joined in 2021


12 comments posted | 5 in the Living with multiple myeloma group


Rewards

  • Contributor

  • Explorer


 View profileView  Add a friendAdd  Write

Hi there, I just joined today. I was diagnosed a few months ago. I actually was diagnosed almost on accident. I had been having some bad leg pain and it turned out that I had a fracture in my femur! That started me on a series of tests and things and then I was diagnosed! I had anemia too which was discovered and I later learned that that often goes along with MM. It was honestly all very overwhelming. It's good to know I'm not alone.

I'm doing chemo and radiation too, @Louflun426‍ that's really encouraging to here, I'm hoping to get a stem cell transplant too!

Stay well everyone


What is your multiple myeloma diagnosis story? https://www.carenity.us/forum/other-discussions/living-with-multiple-myeloma/how-were-you-diagnosed-what-were-the-initial-symptoms-and-signs-844 2021-10-01 17:44:45

avatar Hootick59

Hootick59

10/01/2021 at 6:24 PM

avatar Hootick59

Hootick59

Last activity on 10/01/2021 at 5:59 PM

Joined in 2021


1 comment posted | 1 in the Living with multiple myeloma group


Rewards

  • Explorer


 View profileView  Add a friendAdd  Write

Hello! My name is Cindy and I was diagnosed in February 2020. I had been dealing with anemia and fatigue for 2-3 yrs. Finally my PCP sent me to an oncologist and got my diagnosis. I was started on Velcaid and Revlimid. Then a stem cell transplant November 3, 2020. I just got the news last week that I have relapsed. Had my 4th bone marrow biopsy and I am waiting on results. They will determine my next line of treatment. This second time has hit me hard. I need to be patient and know they will get a plan soon. Just trying to live everyday and enjoy it. 


What is your multiple myeloma diagnosis story? https://www.carenity.us/forum/other-discussions/living-with-multiple-myeloma/how-were-you-diagnosed-what-were-the-initial-symptoms-and-signs-844 2021-10-01 18:24:26

avatar Louflun426

Louflun426

10/02/2021 at 5:45 PM

avatar Louflun426

Louflun426

Last activity on 10/11/2021 at 5:23 PM

Joined in 2021


4 comments posted | 2 in the Living with multiple myeloma group


Rewards

  • Explorer


 View profileView  Add a friendAdd  Write

So right live each day too the best it can be! Stay around positive people


What is your multiple myeloma diagnosis story? https://www.carenity.us/forum/other-discussions/living-with-multiple-myeloma/how-were-you-diagnosed-what-were-the-initial-symptoms-and-signs-844 2021-10-02 17:45:01

avatar Braiboaplar7674

Braiboaplar7674

10/11/2021 at 5:15 PM

avatar Braiboaplar7674

Braiboaplar7674

Last activity on 10/29/2021 at 7:22 PM

Joined in 2021


12 comments posted | 5 in the Living with multiple myeloma group


Rewards

  • Contributor

  • Explorer


 View profileView  Add a friendAdd  Write

@Hootick59 I'm sorry to hear you've relapsed. i'm still relatively new to all of this and trying to understand all the treatment options and potential eventualities. Please keep us updated on how you're doing and any news you have, we'll be here cheering you on!


What is your multiple myeloma diagnosis story? https://www.carenity.us/forum/other-discussions/living-with-multiple-myeloma/how-were-you-diagnosed-what-were-the-initial-symptoms-and-signs-844 2021-10-11 17:15:47

avatar Booshahaish5

Booshahaish5

10/12/2021 at 10:24 PM

avatar Booshahaish5

Booshahaish5

Last activity on 11/15/2021 at 6:31 PM

Joined in 2021


1 comment posted | 1 in the Living with multiple myeloma group


Rewards

  • Explorer


 View profileView  Add a friendAdd  Write

I was  sooo very cold.  Went to the doctor who discovered my anemia, suggested I see hematologist.  That doctor said I had iron deficiency anemia and I received 3 weeks of therapy of IV iron.  Then worked up for MM. Bone marrow showed 10-15% myeloma cells.  He wanted to start me on chemo immediately and ready me for BMT.

I moved to another state before any of that treatment.  There the oncologist felt my anemia may not be caused by myeloma.  Another BMBx, a PET/CT, and many blood draws.  Sent to MM specialist at Mayo who also was unsure of reason for anemia.  Now I am considered smoldering and still getting blood draws.  Will return to Mayo to see what the consensus is nd create a treatment plan.  Currently, I have been at this since October 2020....a full year.  I am learning patience.  Just wish I knew how to not think about it all the time!


What is your multiple myeloma diagnosis story? https://www.carenity.us/forum/other-discussions/living-with-multiple-myeloma/how-were-you-diagnosed-what-were-the-initial-symptoms-and-signs-844 2021-10-12 22:24:36

Close all 

See the responses 

avatar 863Frithaysh

863Frithaysh

10/23/2023 at 4:13 PM

avatar 863Frithaysh

863Frithaysh

Last activity on 04/16/2026 at 11:15 PM

Joined in 2023


2 comments posted | 1 in the Living with multiple myeloma group


Rewards

  • Explorer


 View profileView  Add a friendAdd  Write

@Booshahaish5 My story is very similar. I have Crohn's disease so I took an immunosupressive and started feeling sick almost from the start. 4 years of pain extreme fatigue, breathing issues, leg swelling (lymphodema) and on and on! After years of no answers, I had asked my neurologist what this all could be and she mentioned the mgus. My symptoms seemed to match MM so I saw my hematologist and she confirmed that I fit the CRAB criteria and my bone marrow was between 10 and 15 percent monoclonal cells. A bone scan showed 2 lesions in my skull but that was determined later to be misdiagnosed vascular lacunae. Now they tell me all of these symptoms are from my Crohn's disease. My latest blood work up shows that my light chain lamda and kappa numbers are through the roof, but the ratio shows normal, so, no treatment for me!


What is your multiple myeloma diagnosis story? https://www.carenity.us/forum/other-discussions/living-with-multiple-myeloma/how-were-you-diagnosed-what-were-the-initial-symptoms-and-signs-844 2023-10-23 16:13:01

Hide the responses 

  • 1
  • 2

Give your opinion

Survey

What do you think about the Carenity Forum and community?

Survey

Help shape the future of Carenity!

Survey

Become a Carenity Ambassador – Help our community thrive!

Survey

On a scale of 0 to 10, how likely are you to recommend Carenity to a friend or colleague?

Articles to discover...

Ehlers-Danlos syndrome and cervical instability: “I’m confined to bed 24 hours a day”

10/22/2026 | Testimonial

Ehlers-Danlos syndrome and cervical instability: “I’m confined to bed 24 hours a day”

Ozempic®, Wegovy® and Mounjaro®: differences in diabetes and weight management

10/19/2026 | News

Ozempic®, Wegovy® and Mounjaro®: differences in diabetes and weight management

Signs of stress and exhaustion: subtle changes your body may be showing

10/15/2026 | News

Signs of stress and exhaustion: subtle changes your body may be showing

Respiratory allergies: understanding symptoms, triggers and treatments

10/14/2026 | News

Respiratory allergies: understanding symptoms, triggers and treatments

Cigarettes VS e-cigarettes: an update on the consumption and pitfalls to avoid

02/20/2019 | Advice

Cigarettes VS e-cigarettes: an update on the consumption and pitfalls to avoid

Telemedicine: Remote examinations and operations are here!

03/11/2019 | News

Telemedicine: Remote examinations and operations are here!

Chronic fatigue: patients' experiences and solutions

04/15/2019 | Advice

Chronic fatigue: patients' experiences and solutions

Love life in the face of illness: how to cope?

02/14/2019 | Advice

Love life in the face of illness: how to cope?

icon cross

Does this topic interest you?

Join the 500 000 patients registered on our platform, get information on your condition or on that of your family member, and discuss it with the community

Join now! Join now! Join now! Join now! Join now!

It’s free and confidential

Subscribe

You wish to be notified of new comments

 

You have been subscribed

Join now! Log in

About

  • About us
  • Why share your data?
  • The Carenity team
  • The ambassadors
  • Partner associations
  • Contributors
  • The Science and Ethics Committee
  • Our scientific publications
  • Our commitments
  • Certifications and awards
  • Carenity in the news
  • Editorial policy
  • Code of conduct
  • Legal notice
  • Terms of use
  • Cookie management
  • Contact
  • Carenity for professionals

Quick access

  • Health magazine
  • Search a forum
  • Learn about a condition
  • See medication reviews
  • List of forums (A-Z)
  • List of condition info sheets (A-Z)
  • List of medication fact sheets (A-Z)
  • Language flag fr flag en flag de flag es flag it

The www.carenity.us website does not constitute or replace professional medical advice.