I've been with my husband for six years. We have lived together for 4. He used to never even yell at me during an argument for the first 3 years. The past few years, though, I feel as though my depression is dragging him down. I've caught him sexting other women, taking pictures of himself, and more recently he has become more verbally and physically aggressive. He has never hit me, but lately he has been wildly hitting the things that are very near to me, and screaming in my face at the top of his lungs. I'm not exactly a saint myself (I get loud in certain situations or I get so depressed I cant even pretend to be happy), but he bruised his hands from repeatedly hitting the seat I was in. And Im afraid he will only get worse... He told me I pushed him over the edge, but he never did apologize for it... What should I do? I can't afford therapy, and I can't leave him without having to sell my house and uproot my entire life. Also, maybe I'm dumb, but I still love him and want to fix it before its irreversible.
hi do you live in Texas,alot of stressful events you dealing with.if you get away from there you will get relief.my mom divorce my dad after 15 yrs he thought my mom would be there forever but suddenly it was all over.weaknees and kindness are different.
I feel like I am making my husband violenthttps://www.carenity.us/forum/other-discussions/living-with-depression/i-feel-like-i-am-making-my-husband-violent-13832019-12-24 05:56:25
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I've been with my husband for six years. We have lived together for 4. He used to never even yell at me during an argument for the first 3 years. The past few years, though, I feel as though my depression is dragging him down. I've caught him sexting other women, taking pictures of himself, and more recently he has become more verbally and physically aggressive. He has never hit me, but lately he has been wildly hitting the things that are very near to me, and screaming in my face at the top of his lungs. I'm not exactly a saint myself (I get loud in certain situations or I get so depressed I cant even pretend to be happy), but he bruised his hands from repeatedly hitting the seat I was in. And Im afraid he will only get worse... He told me I pushed him over the edge, but he never did apologize for it... What should I do? I can't afford therapy, and I can't leave him without having to sell my house and uproot my entire life. Also, maybe I'm dumb, but I still love him and want to fix it before its irreversible.