How to get out of a controlling relationship.

I'm 41 years old I'm going with a 65 yr old women that has. Adhd and we been see each other for almost 9 months but she accuses me of lieing and cheating which I'm not non of those things and she is a very jealous person when I talk to female friend I haven't seen for a long time I feel like I'm being pushed away and not being loved and will not do things with me cause she is always busy with her grand kids or family and will not. Leave town or take one day out town do things with me or have any time for our self. Always says she is not feeling well and always baby sets and just thinks about her self besides me it really bothering me what can I do?

@Sweeperman Hi, it sounds like you really need to talk to her and explain how you're feeling. It sounds like she may have some past traumas or insecurities that are making her think/behave that way. May be if you two talk about it and understand why she's being that way you guys can figure out a way forward?

Hey im 38yrs old and i feel like im never going to get out of my controlling and manipulative relationship with my fiance he keeps cheating and cheating and when I get the urge to confront him and get ready to leave he pulls me back in with words that is hurtful but makes me feel like it's true that I'm not worthy and no one else is going to want me because I'm ugly and because my medical condition