Friendships & illness: Which ones last, and which ones fade?

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03/19/2025 at 11:00 PM

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Hi everyone, how are you doing today? 😊

A chronic illness doesn’t just affect health, it can also impact friendships. Some friends may distance themselves, struggling to understand what you’re going through, while others step up and become an incredible source of support.

❓ Have you lost friendships because of your illness?

❓ On the other hand, have you been surprised by the unexpected support of someone?

❓ In your opinion, what qualities are essential for a friendship to withstand the challenges of illness?

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We’d love to hear about your experiences!

Looking forward to your thoughts,

Somya from the Carenity Team 🌼

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03/19/2025 at 11:10 PM

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I have never lost friendships due to my illnesses

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Friendships & illness: Which ones last, and which ones fade? https://www.carenity.us/forum/other-discussions/good-to-know/friendships-illness-which-ones-last-and-which-ones-fade-6173 2025-03-19 23:10:56

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03/19/2025 at 11:29 PM

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Yes, I have lost a couple of friends because of my illness and its impact on me. In hindsight, it wasn’t my fault, nor my illness’s fault. It was the flaws in that friend.

Look, I have been happily married (for the most part, no marriage is perfect) for 29 years. He has been divorced three times in that time. Now, people get divorced! I understand that. Twice divorced could be just being young and not knowing how true love actually feels. Maybe. But three times? That is the mathematical definition of a pattern.

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04/18/2025 at 11:58 PM

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Hello Friends, have you ever heard that "Good Friends are like Rare Wine, it gets better with age"!!! I am here and remember, I am more than likely older than most of you that are reading this post. I am going to be 72 in June, and I have dedicated my life to help those who want to help themselves. I noticed, my energy level is getting less as I age but, I am still here for all of you!!!! Thanks to Somya we are still here and communicating. I remember when the chats were active and not something to read but, each person was an active speaker. I miss that but, this is still better than nothing!!! We will always need a place to Vent!!!! Somya, I thank you for helping all of us and many of us forget that without you--WE WOULD BE LOST!!! ((((((Somya))) Many GOD, keep you well!!

Love and Blessings

Michele aka mickeyitaly3@aol.com

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