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The will to live: Can mindset make a difference in cancer?
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Hello Everyone. I wanted to give my opinion for this discussion. I truly believe if you have a positive attitude and outlook towards staying alive and accepting your condition, you will make out okay. I have seen many people who had cancer just feel negative and very depressed, they just go downhill from there on.
I had throat cancer twice, never smoked a day in my life. My second cancer I had a very large tumor on the base if my tongue going downward into my larynx. I had chemo and a large dose of radiation for 6 weeks. End result the radiation killed my tumor, but left me on a permanent trach in my neck and feeding tube. My epiglottis was dam6andvtitled backwards so I can't eat, or drink anything by mouth. It is also a big strain to speak a few words, so I write notes to communicate. Most people do not know sign language. My point is after all this PLUS losing my nice paying job, I STILL fight to stay alive even if it's a big struggle for me. No it's not an easy life but God kept me here to help whoever I can, the disabled, sick, or elderly to name a few. And always remember thier is somebody who is worse off than you....
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I completely understand as I don’t have anyone to talk to also. I’m a widow & I live alone. My oldest son died in 2021 & my youngest son & his family live 3 hours. My father is dead & my mother has chronic back pain & is immobile. My younger sister lives with our mother & she is going through a divorce from her husband who abandoned her. My sister doesn’t visit me, help me, call me & rarely texts me. I have various cousins, a niece & nephew that are spread out in nearby states but are hours away from me. After I told my friends I had cancer, they quit contacting me. I have learned how to be my own care giver. It has been very difficult. I’ll admit I’ve been depressed, cried a lot, felt sorry for myself but I never gave up. I prayed & read my Bible everyday. Then I found cancer groups online like this one where I could share what I was going through & got empathetic responses. That really kept me going. I hope you find someone to talk to but I highly recommend the online cancer chat groups.
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I completely understand as I don’t have anyone to talk to also. I’m a widow & I live alone. My oldest son died in 2021 & my youngest son & his family live 3 hours. My father is dead & my mother has chronic back pain & is immobile. My younger sister lives with our mother & she is going through a divorce from her husband who abandoned her. My sister doesn’t visit me, help me, call me & rarely texts me. I have various cousins, a niece & nephew that are spread out in nearby states but are hours away from me. After I told my friends I had cancer, they quit contacting me. I have learned how to be my own care giver. It has been very difficult. I’ll admit I’ve been depressed, cried a lot, felt sorry for myself but I never gave up. I prayed & read my Bible everyday. Then I found cancer groups online like this one where I could share what I was going through & got empathetic responses. That really kept me going. I hope you find someone to talk to but I highly recommend the online cancer chat groups.
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Hello everyone, how are you holding up today?
Many people with cancer have said, “I’m still here because I chose to live.” But what does that really mean?
According to a thought-provoking piece from Stanford Medicine, the will to live isn’t just wishful thinking, it can be a powerful psychological force. Patients who are emotionally engaged, who feel a sense of purpose, who stay involved in their care, and who nurture hope often report a better quality of life. In some cases, they even respond better to treatment.
Of course, mindset is not a magic cure, and cancer is never the patient’s fault. But stories in the article show how some people find strength in unexpected ways, by choosing joy, connecting with loved ones, or simply making a decision to keep going, one day at a time.
💬 What about you?
Have you ever felt that your mindset, or the mindset of someone close to you, helped shape how you experienced illness?
What gives you the will to keep going, especially on hard days?
Do you believe emotional strength can support physical healing, or do you feel that it's too overly romanticized?
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Your story might help someone else who’s struggling to hold onto hope. 💛
Take care,
Somya from the Carenity team 🌼